Deutsch„Hello [Username], let me give my two cents regarding sexual imagination. Isn’t it that we men put pressure on ourselves to always be able to perform? Everywhere you look we are expected to always have to, be able to, have to be able to, etc. We men are victims of the porn industry in my opinion, which tries to create the image of us as mere dick-controlled creatures. The male sexuality is just as complex as the female one. The stupid thing is that we buy the illusion of ‚having to put out‘.
Especially if you’re a punter and things aren’t working sexually in the moment – it doesn’t take long for you to realize that for these women you are just a walking dick with a wallet, who is supposed to cum as quickly as possible. This, too, is a form of degradation. Us guys are under constant stress, which is really bad for us. I can have an orgasm without cumming. That’s not even the start of it. It’s really not easy to find your way through all the expectations of society and things don’t always work out for you. Fucking is awesome, supposed to be fun, and can only be fun when it brings joy. When it doesn’t bring any joy, one should really consider what one’s doing. Putting oneself under pressure helps no one.“
Source: Tabulos Forum. April 2nd, 2011. Accessed May 18th, 2018.
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